Chelsea Is My Handler
Two ways in.
A network where people who know you best introduce you to people worth meeting.
Need a Handler?
A friend in your corner. Writes your story. Sends the sparks.
Ask the friend in your life who always knew what to say. They'll write about you, you approve every word, and we'll introduce you to people worth meeting.
Find your HandlerComing in Phase B
Pimp your pal. Slip the number. Start the spark.
Got a single friend you think the world of? Soon you'll be able to write their profile, invite them, and introduce them to your favorite people. Join the waitlist to be first.
Join the waitlistWhy this exists
Chelsea Handler’s friend slipped a guy her number.
They hit it off. We built the app that lets every friend do the same.
Your friends already know who you should meet. Now they have the tools.
A Handler in Vegas gave her friend a cowboy's number at a blackjack table. They've been texting every day.
Las Vegas
Placeholder demo content. The live activity feed is functionality we’re still building.
Why this exists
No algorithm knows you like your best friend does.
They know your type, your dealbreakers, and the thing you do when you actually like someone. They’ve been setting you up at dinner parties for years. We just gave them an app.
Stop swiping. Let the people who love you do the matchmaking.
How it works
Four steps. Two people.
One real connection.
Your friend signs up as your Handler
Someone who knows you, really knows you, joins the network and gets an invite code.
A Handler helps build your profile
They write about what makes you laugh, what your perfect weekend looks like, why someone would be lucky to meet you. Voice notes included.
You review and go live
You get a notification, review what they wrote, tweak anything you want, and approve. You're in the network.
Real introductions happen
Your Handler knows other Handlers. They compare notes, look out for you, and when they find someone genuinely worth meeting, they bring them to you. No cold DMs, no algorithm, no endless swiping — just a few people, considered. You decide from there.
For Handlers
Got a friend you want to help out?
You already do this. You have said “you two would be perfect” at a dinner party and meant it. This is that, with the awkward part handled.
Take the Oath
Sign up and promise to treat it as a privilege. It takes a minute and it is the whole vetting process.
Write your friend up
Draft their profile the way you would describe them to someone you trust. They approve every word before it goes anywhere.
Make the introduction
Compare notes with Handlers you know. When you both spot a match, you co-sign it — and both Pals say yes before any details are shared.
A promise, not a contract
The Oath of Goodwill
Every Handler agrees to this before they begin.
I am here because I believe someone I care about deserves to be seen. Not by an algorithm, but by a person who actually knows them.
I will tell their story honestly. I will respect their boundaries. I will never share what isn't mine to share.
I understand that being a Handler is a privilege, not a power. My job is to open doors. Not to push anyone through them.
— I will do this with goodwill, or I won't do it at all.
How do you want in?
Try the demo — see what the experience feels like from either side.
Where the network is
350 Pals across 7 cities, vouched for by 117 Handlers. 47 sparks this week.